Regardless, I hoped it would serve as an inspiration and reminder that many issues that seem so large and insurmountable, are more easily faced with a friend… if a discussion can just begin.
I will also, in an upcoming post, talk about my own battle with depression.
I was inspired to write the song, when I met the man who founded the group Parents Awareness of Eating Disorders. (Which, sadly, has since dissolved.)
When I met him, he had his daughter with him… and she was back to a pattern of eating normally, after suffering from an Eating Disorder. He spoke passionately and openly, about how helpless he had felt, and how lucky he was that his daughter had been strong enough to come to him, and tell him what was happening. Together they had found a path back for her… but he knew that many others were not as strong, and as a result, not all had happy endings to their stories.
I tried to take those feelings, and write a song of support and encouragement.
It is a song about the view many people with Eating Disorders have… that they are alone, and isolated. That no one knows what they are going through, or what they are feeling. I wrote this song to remind them that others also have the same feelings and issues, and to create an awareness of the support and community that are available to help them, if they can just reach out.
The lyrics for this song were kindly posted by Isabella Mori, on her Blog, for Eating Disorders Awareness Week, in early February.
You Are Not Alone
Music & Lyrics By Bob Gray © October 22, 2003
There is a light, beyond the darkness
There is pain, inside us all.
Sometimes we trip, on the roads we travel
As we reach up, sometimes we fall
And though sometimes, I know you’re lonely
With all my heart, I need you to know…
You are not alone… I stand by your side.
With so many others, who hide, as you hide.
With all my heart, I hope you will hear me
You are not alone… You are not alone…
There is a peace, that you can get to
It will be hard, but you’ll be fine.
I’ll walk with you, in case you stumble
Reach out your hand, I’ll give you mine
And though sometimes, you may be frightened
With all my heart, I want you to know…
But, beyond the hurt… Beyond frustration…
Beyond the mountains, we all must climb
There is the dawn, of a new tomorrow
The dawn of hope… I hope we find…